hello! you know i had gone through something similar with my family.. it is true, sometimes you just need to get out! but until you can do that... i would say that you should cleanse your room. take out all of the negativity in your own personal space. perhaps you can write a spell for strength to get through this. and maybe, if you are concerned for your pup you can do a spell for her to behave so that she won't annoy your dad. at my house it was totally my dad's negativity that was weighing us all down. whenever he would go on a business trip my mom would have me cleanse the house.. i have to say it really worked!!!! but only while he was gone. as soon as he came back blamo it was back and badder than ever! so unfortunately i don't think a cleansing would help the house out much... but your own space hell ya! you could even put shells on your dogs coller for protection. whenever i do a house cleansing i say that only good energies are welcome here and all bad must go! it's funny, ever since i started to do that i have not had my dad or one of my close friends {who can be a big ol ball of negativity} over at my house! it's like they don't wanna come in! so maybe that would help your space. :) hope this helps a little! and i am sorry that things are bad.. i'll send you a little energy tonight, sounds like you could use it!
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